Most long-term care in Escondido is custodial, and Medicare does not pay for it. Here is how skilled and custodial care differ, and how Medi-Cal, IHSS and private pay fit.
By Marcus Reyes, LSW · October 24, 2026
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Marcus: Welcome to the San Diego Senior Advisor podcast. I'm Marcus.
Dana: And I'm Dana. Today we're in North County, talking about long-term care in Escondido and who actually pays for it.
Marcus: This one usually starts with a phone call. Mom fell, she's in rehab after a hospital stay, and the nursing home says Medicare coverage is ending soon.
Dana: And the family is stunned, because they assumed Medicare would just keep paying.
Marcus: So let's start there. What is custodial care, and how is it different from skilled nursing?
Dana: Custodial care is help with everyday self-care. Bathing, dressing, eating, using the toilet, getting in and out of bed. Skilled nursing is care that needs a licensed nurse or therapist, like wound care, IV medication or daily rehab after a hospital stay.
Marcus: Why does the label matter so much?
Dana: Because it decides who pays. Medicare calls custodial care long-term care, and it doesn't pay for it when that's the only care a person needs.
Marcus: So a parent can sit in the same bed in the same building, and the payer changes.
Dana: Exactly. Three weeks of skilled rehab after a hip fracture, then custodial care once therapy stops. The bed doesn't change. The bill does.
Marcus: Does Medicare pay for long-term care in an Escondido nursing home?
Dana: Not for custodial care. Medicare's own coverage page says it generally doesn't cover long-term nursing home stays unless the person is getting skilled care.
Marcus: What does it cover, then?
Dana: A qualifying skilled stay, for up to 100 days per benefit period. The first 20 days have no daily coinsurance. For days 21 through 100, it's $217 a day in 2026.
Marcus: And it can end before day 100.
Dana: It can, if your parent no longer needs daily skilled care. Ask the social worker for written notice of when coverage is expected to end. That date is when you choose: private pay, Medi-Cal, or a move to a lower level of care.
Marcus: Skilled nursing versus custodial care. If a family had to remember one comparison, what is it?
Dana: Skilled care happens in a skilled nursing facility licensed by the state health department, and Medicare can pay for a while. Custodial care can happen in a nursing home, an assisted living or board and care home, or at home, and Medicare doesn't pay for it.
Marcus: Who checks those places?
Dana: The California Department of Public Health licenses nursing homes, and its Cal Health Find tool shows complaints, deficiencies and Medi-Cal certification. Assisted living homes are licensed by Community Care Licensing, and you can look them up at ccld.dss.ca.gov.
Marcus: How does Medi-Cal pay for custodial nursing home care?
Dana: Medi-Cal can pay when a doctor documents the stay is medically necessary and the facility accepts Medi-Cal. Your parent usually pays most of their monthly income to the facility as a share of cost, keeps a small personal allowance, and Medi-Cal pays the rest.
Marcus: I've heard assets matter again.
Dana: They do. Starting January 1, 2026, Medi-Cal counts assets for many older adults. The limit is $130,000 for one person, plus $65,000 for each additional household member, and the home you live in doesn't count.
Marcus: Any warning before families start moving money around?
Dana: Confirm the current rules with San Diego County first. And check that the specific Escondido facility is Medi-Cal certified before you count on it.
Marcus: Can custodial care in Escondido happen outside a nursing home?
Dana: Yes, and for a lot of families it's the better fit. State licensing records list 90 active assisted living homes in Escondido as of October 2026.
Marcus: Ninety. What do those look like?
Dana: Sixty-one are licensed for six or fewer residents, so they're small board and care homes. Fifty-three list dementia care, and 41 are approved to care for at least one bedridden resident.
Marcus: Does Medi-Cal pay for those?
Dana: Generally not the room and board. But In-Home Supportive Services, or IHSS, can pay for custodial help at home for people with Medi-Cal who live in their own home.
Marcus: Where does a family start?
Dana: Call San Diego County Aging and Independence Services at 800-339-4661. It's free, and they can walk you through home care and Medi-Cal options.
Marcus: The full guide, with the comparison table and links to our Escondido care pages, is in the description.
Dana: And if you'd like to talk it through, a San Diego Senior Advisor is free. See you next time.
Custodial care is help with everyday self-care: bathing, dressing, eating, using the toilet and getting in and out of bed. Skilled nursing is care that needs a licensed nurse or therapist, such as wound care, IV medication or daily rehab after a hospital stay.
The difference matters because it decides who pays. Medicare calls custodial care long-term care, or long-term services and supports, and it does not pay for it when that is the only care a person needs. Many Escondido families learn this the hard way, usually a few weeks after a parent leaves Palomar Medical Center Escondido for a rehab stay and the facility says Medicare coverage is ending.
Custodial care is not tied to one building. It can happen in a nursing home, in a licensed residential care facility for the elderly (RCFE), or at home. Skilled nursing, by contrast, almost always means a skilled nursing facility (SNF) or home health visits ordered by a doctor.
Here is the short version. Use it when a discharge planner, a nursing home business office or a Medi-Cal worker uses one of these terms.
| Question | Skilled nursing care | Custodial (long-term) care |
|---|---|---|
| What it is | Daily care that needs a licensed nurse or therapist, usually after a hospital stay | Help with bathing, dressing, eating, toileting and moving around |
| Typical setting in Escondido | A skilled nursing facility (SNF) licensed by CDPH | A nursing home, an RCFE (assisted living or board and care), or the family home |
| Does Medicare pay? | Yes, up to 100 days per benefit period if you qualify; days 21 to 100 carry a $217 daily coinsurance in 2026 | No, not when custodial care is the only care needed |
| Does Medi-Cal pay? | Yes, for eligible residents of a Medi-Cal certified facility | In a nursing home when medically necessary; at home through IHSS; not RCFE room and board |
| Who licenses or checks it | CDPH Licensing and Certification (Cal Health Find) and CMS Care Compare | CDPH for nursing homes; CDSS Community Care Licensing for RCFEs |
A single resident can move between the two columns. A parent may get skilled rehab for three weeks after a hip fracture, then stay in the same building for custodial care once therapy stops. The bed does not change. The payer does. Our guide to Medicare's 100 skilled nursing days walks through the rules for that first stretch.
No, not for custodial care. Medicare's own coverage page says it generally does not cover long-term nursing home stays unless the person is receiving skilled nursing care.
What Medicare does cover is a skilled stay that meets its rules, for up to 100 days per benefit period. The first 20 days carry no daily coinsurance. For days 21 through 100, CMS set the 2026 coinsurance at $217 per day. The 2026 Part A hospital deductible is $1,736. Coverage can end before day 100 if the resident no longer needs daily skilled care.
Ask the nursing home social worker for written notice of when skilled coverage is expected to end. That date is when the family has to choose: private pay, Medi-Cal, or a move to a lower level of care.
Medi-Cal can pay for a nursing home stay when a doctor documents that it is medically necessary and the facility accepts Medi-Cal. The resident usually pays most of their monthly income to the facility as a share of cost, keeps a small personal needs allowance, and Medi-Cal pays the rest.
Assets matter again in 2026. California's Health Consumer Alliance explains that starting January 1, 2026, Medi-Cal counts assets for many older adults, with a limit of $130,000 for one person and an added $65,000 for each additional household member. The home where you live does not count toward the limit. Confirm current rules with San Diego County before you spend down or move money.
Before you rely on Medi-Cal, check that a specific Escondido facility is Medi-Cal certified. CDPH points families to Cal Health Find, which shows Medicare and Medi-Cal certification, complaints and deficiencies for each licensed nursing home. Our nursing home vetting guide shows how to read those records.
Yes, and for many families it is the better fit. If a parent needs hands-on help but not daily nursing, an RCFE is often the first option to look at. CDSS Community Care Licensing records list 90 active RCFEs in Escondido as of October 24, 2026. Of those, 61 are licensed for six or fewer residents, 53 list dementia care, and 41 are approved to care for at least one bedridden resident. Browse them in our CCLD-sourced directory or start with Escondido board and care homes.
Keep the payment rules straight. Medi-Cal does not generally pay RCFE room and board. In-Home Supportive Services (IHSS) can pay for custodial help at home for people with a Medi-Cal eligibility determination who live in their own home, not in a licensed facility. Compare home options on our Escondido in-home care page.
For free help sorting the options, call San Diego County Aging & Independence Services at 800-339-4661. To check any RCFE's record, use ccld.dss.ca.gov.
Last verified: October 2026.
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